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KH: What mistakes do families when they start talking to Mom or Dad move in a center?
Margie Veis: One of the biggest mistakes I see is a bunch of kids know their parents are safe at home, but they want to master the control.
Children often say their parents talk with something like, Mom, you will go to a nursing home when I asked him, no. Okay. Now, move to my mother. O My father does not move me. Well, there are security problems, I asked. Yes, there are many security issues, and I'm not sleeping at night because I was afraid, and I have to go every day, but my father does not move and I can not. O My father says it's too much money. He does not want to come here. My father said: I still can not get at home. Many of 6 Super Bowl Champions jersey black jersey
our parents grew up in depression. for thousands of dollars - - is outrageous for them if they hear those numbers. Some of them think, although you could get a gallon of gasoline to 25 cents. Why in the world spend thousands of dollars to live here if they have a home?
You can not always be your father is the father. Sometimes you have to step in
KH: How can families on the way?
MW: Sometimes it can be a doctor. Sometimes you can say. You know what Mom, I try this for me, we do not sell your house to live here for a month and try it .. If you do not, we might have to come back. Sometimes does not move. Then you have to look for alternatives - which could be in home care.
If it is really a bad situation, however difficult it may refer to Adult Protective Services and say, This is not a safe place for my parents, they burn the house Van a. Go on the road and hit by a car are the.. take the car and kill someone. I can not do it yourself if you know what? need for an external agency into question Not knowing. what to do. This is the worst and ultimately, what you can get in the time.
KH: I remember the car keys away from Mom. It was one of 36 Bettis White Jersey
the hardest things I've done.
See Margie: I agree.
I had this discussion with my mother a few times. We are not here yet, but a dialogue, and I think it's important that children have the dialogue with our parents. You're done? They are getting older. I can assure you that when the time comes and we need to do something that is planned, and we hope to do before it becomes a crisis. If you happen to see the mother of instability and things, and do not provide for themselves: Hygiene is not enough, they do not eat well, do not go out, or they drive, they should have had this conversation and not wait until there is a crisis and then some something bad happened.